"They who know the truth are not equal to those who love it, and they who love it are not equal to those who delight in it." -Confucius

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Rebuking without Anger

Mesilath Yesharim, Ch. 11
"Even for the sake of fulfilling a mitzvah (commandment), our Sages of blessed memory have cautioned us not to get angry; even a rabbi with his student or a father with his son. Of course this does not mean that they should not rebuke them. Let them rebuke them, time and time again, but without anger, in order to guide them along the right path, and any anger they express should be only facial rather than [true] anger of the heart."

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